With the holiday season already here, the recession is keeping us more at home and maybe the gift buying this year has been cut somewhat.  

But one of the greatest gifts you can give your young child is the understanding of who they are, and time. Home for a young child is in the heart and hands of their parents and caregivers. All children are different, unique, and have different needs. But there are basic needs of all children that can be observed, met and encouraged during this holiday time of being at home and being together.

Celebrate their life every day in little ways. When listening to your child or  children keep that focus with your eyes and attention on them. Try to set aside a special time just to listen to that child. Remember to find ways to praise your child.

True love is shown to children when you guide them with discipline and rules that will help them  succeed in today’s world.

Include those strengths and gifts in family tasks and chores that make up your holiday traditions. Your kids may be young but include them in what they are able to developmentally do. Encourage your young child when he/she is  trying new things. It may be just step by step but praise them when they try something new. Your reward will be the smile they give back to you!

Beth Pinyerd lives in Daphne and serves as director of younger children at Faith Family Fellowship in Spanish Fort.

Her column appears every other week in the Daphne Bulletin and Spanish Fort Sun.