As we usher in the brand new year of 2011 here are some thoughtful gift resolutions that you can give your child or children that don’t cost a cent.

• Have a cheerful disposition with your child.  Your child is so very, very special to you. Celebrate your child by spending time with your child and planning special activities.
• Compliment your child. As he or she tries step-by-step to accomplish a small task encourage the child with verbal praise each step of the way.
• Be a good listener for your child. Really listen to your child without interrupting their little thoughts. You will be pleasantly surprised at what your young child will say.
• Give your child the gift of affection! Be generous with appropriate hugs, pats on the back and handholds.
• Laugh with your child. Be a kid again and laugh at wholesome, humorous situations with your child! Laughter relieves stress in family situations and just makes you feel better.
• Give the gift of a written note. Send “I love you” notes in lunches, thank-you notes on their pillows or even an upbeat message on their mirror.
• You can’t outdo a child in doing special favors for them. There are many opportunities that don’t cost a thing that will make your child feel special!  Reading to your child is a favor to your child. As we approach 2011, remember time spent is a gift that your child will never forget!
• Play with your child. Keep in mind that play is a child’s work. Cherish each moment because they are only “little” once and — believe me — they grow up quick.
• Take time to observe the world around us with your child. It’s so neat to look at our world through the eyes of a child. They see things that sometimes we miss.
• If you have several children, choose a special time or day that you can spend with each child. Each child is different; let your little ones know how unique and special they are to you as their parent or grandparent.

Parents, it really takes a conscious effort and planning to set aside time in our busy world to spend time with your child or children. But time spent with your child or children is something they will never forget.

Beth Pinyerd lives in Daphne and serves as director of younger children at Faith Family Fellowship in Spanish Fort.

Her column appears regularly in The Bulletin.